A lot of ”brown” women grew up in traditional households with traditional gender roles, but they don’t want to conform to these gender roles when they want to marry and have to fight off this type of expectation from family and prospective suitors. They were never bullied by white people yet they profess hate against white males because they internalized it due to the ideology they seem to follow. I have met women who grew up in their home countries pre-university and they have the exact same views as Ms Khilnani. People are deflecting the blame to racism or bullying, when the root cause is modern *feminism*. I am sure they would have been a target of bullying as well. Scorpion, how is this a case of past bullying? Do brown males who grow up in white neighborhoods display such type of hate against the majority race? Not that I see. this will give the child an option to pursue their career in US later in life. this may go against the instincts of most desis, who want to bring up their kids in cosmopolitan environment, but believe me, your kids will thank you later in your life for your decision.Īnother option, may be have a child in US and move back to india with a US passport and an OCI card. most schools there are > 50% indian, so your child will feel less out of place there. One solution is to settle down in heavily indian towns like edison NJ, irving TX or fremont CA. in fact this khilnani girl displays the typical symptoms of someone who was bullied to the point of no return in her childhood, and now she is beyond repair. years of constant, subtle and not-so-subtle racist bullying is sure recipe for growing into a neurotic maladjusted adult. for heaven’s sake do not ruin their childhood by making them spend it here.įor a kid, growing up happy and knowing that they are loved and valued is much more important than mundane material comforts. I have said it before in this blog, and i will say it again. I think this will resonate strongly with many indian americnans who did their schooling in US, or have kids going to school in US. “I know what my kids who were born here, went through pure RACISM.” fantasies like unloading a revolver in someone’s head IS extreme! she needs help. That being said, they psychiatrists extreme reaction did shock me. they can elect a government who can fix things. if under-educated whites as sliding down in life, they can change it. The real problem is that US does not have good social safety nets like europe or canada. but who is responsible for this? are chinese or indian americans who work their butt off to succeed in this country responsible for this? “The vast majority of white Americans, whose life expectancy is decreasing, have it worse off than us.” she was probably born in the US, so why shouldn’t she ask to be treated as any other american? where else can she go? it is obvious that she is demanding respect and equality that is rightfully due to her given her accomplishments. I dont think the psychiatrist in question was complaining about being underprivileged. Hector_St_Clare on Open Thread – – Brown Pundits.Vikram on Open Thread – – Brown Pundits.V C Vijayaraghavan on Why Hindu modernity is incomplete without Hindu Capitalism.
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